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Job Hunter's Guide Logo Step Two Prepare: Support System

Job hunting can be as challenging as starting your own business, which, in a way, is what you're doing. Make sure that you get the emotional and social support you need to get you through any rough spots you may encounter.

Keep It Simple

Job hunting requires multi-tasking, so keep it simple!

  • Break tasks into small chunks.

  • Congratulate yourself for each task you do.

  • Focus on today, not the future or the past.

  • Don't expect to find a job immediately. Be realistic.

Care for Yourself Physically

Job hunting takes time and energy, so nurture yourself.

  • Sleep at least 7.5 hours a night.

  • Eat in the healthiest way you can.

  • Exercise regularly to relieve stress.

  • Avoid drugs and alcohol.

  • Take time to have fun — without guilt!

Ask for Help

Identify supporters using the exercise on this page and then ask for their active assistance.

  • Let them congratulate you when you deserve it.

  • Call a friend before and after each interview: "bookending" reminds you that you're not alone.

  • Share your hopes and fears about job hunting.

  • Check in regularly with someone to stay on track.

 

Deal with Your Feelings

Job hunting can generate a lot of emotions. Control them so that they don't control you! Here's how:

  • Identify how you feel.

  • Express your feelings constructively by writing or sharing them with a friend.

  • Let go of negative feelings you might have about former employers; no one wants to hire a bitter person!

EXERCISE: IDENTIFY YOUR SUPPORT SYSTEM

This exercise helps you identify which of your friends can provide the different types of support you'll need while job hunting. You can list as many people per type as you wish.

TYPE OF
SUPPORTER
FRIEND'S NAME
Cheerleader
knows and likes you
___________

Mentor

gives directions, knows you'll succeed

___________

Information broker

shares information about job hunting and employers; gives referrals for financial aid and other social services

___________

Public relations rep

willing and able to make contacts with employers

___________

Caretaker

willing to babysit, provide transportation, loan you equipment

___________

adapted from Opening Doors: A Practical Guide for Job Hunting by Jane Goodman, Judith Hoppin and Ronald Kent

Last Revision: October 13, 2003